June 14, 2026

Theme - Date Plans for Partners

Topic - Handling Different Kinds of Partners on First Date

Facilitator: Mr Weng

Is it good to go on a date as a Christian?

Tonight, we will be looking at handling different kinds of partners on first date

Before that, always remember to be security conscious when going on a date

Share your location with someone for maximum security

The first set of people are the talkers 

They can talk without breaking or pausing

When you are on date with a talker especially if you're a talker too, gently interrupt them

You can interrupt them by asking them what about me?

If you don't interrupt, they can use about 90% of the date talking about self

Gently interrupt

2. The shy and quiet people. This set will not even look at your face 🤣

You will be getting responses like okay, yes, no etc

One word answer and I know we don't like such conversations

The best way to handle such people, ask them questions and get them to talk while you listen though it can be tiring when you are the one doing all the questioning

Reason most of them are shy is because of anxiety but if you can make them feel relaxed, you will have best date

3. Interviewer 

4. This set of people will always question and sometimes ask you personal questions

The best way to handle such  people is by politely letting them know that the question is too personal

Learn to set boundaries when on a date with an interviewer otherwise you will say things you shouldn't have said

4. Flirty people

They will start touching you almost immediately

They are quick to touch on, compliment your body and all

When on a date with such people, move slightly away from them, and let them know the essence of the date is to get to know each other

If the touching becomes too much, you can walk away

5. Phone Addicts

This is very annoying and unethical when you are on a date

Please, the rule for phone on  a date is that your phone should be upside down. That is your screen should face down and it should be on silence or vibration

When on a date with a phone addict, draw their attention to it

6. Pessimistic people

This set of people will use stories of past breakfast, lunch and dinner to finish you 🤣😂

When on a date with a pessimistic, as their share their stories and negative experiences, don't try to fix them. As much as you can, change the topic of discussion

If possible, share a beautiful experience of yours. It could be about work, business or something but ensure it is positive and not negative

The goal is to make them see beauty in every situation no matter how ugly it appears

In conclusion, when on a date and you notice disrespect, aggressive nature and insult, please walk away from such date

Like I said earlier, you are not there to fix or change them but to know more about them

Let me ask us a question 

If your date is 15mins later and starts complaining immediately, what will you do and what type of date is that?

I will end it here. Thanks to everyone who followed